End up being yourself.

Yes, we know how corny this sounds, but a lot of guys-especially those who fear rejection-attempt to be someone they’re not. They act like some suave, clever womanizer they think the ladies want. (Spoiler alert: most don’t.) Don’t be like those guys. “Authenticity is the best game you can bring,” says sex and relationship expert Shamyra Howard, LCSW. “Don’t present the person you think you should be; it’s best to be your genuine self. This isn’t the time to fake it until you make it.” You want someone to like you for who you are. Besides, how long will you able to keep up the charade of being someone else?

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